How to deal with a human turd in a healthy way... I promise.
Be it at school, home, the WORKPLACE and even some friendships- it’s becoming annoyingly more common and it’s time to put these crappers down the porcelain bowl. Before you even give these individuals the time of day, I want you to understand that a bully is a selfish, insecure and most definitely the most incompetent person you will ever meet. They belittle you to a point where you actually believe you are who they say you are and you go down this spiral of self destruction that seems impossible to get out of.
One of the most popular type of bullying is in school and in the workplace. In school, bullying stems from the child being taught that it’s ok to belittle someone or is possibly a victim of bullying in their own home or friend circle. In the workplace, bullying (in my opinion) comes from the person’s feelings towards YOU. They could possibly feel intimidated by your work ethic or your personality in general and try to make you feel less than who you are.
Narcissistic people are one of the worst people you will ever meet. They have 101 reasons to keep their mouth shut but due to their ego, they feel the need to push you around and almost break your spirit. They have this sense of pleasure in making people feel a certain way (walking bloody satans) and feel like they have one upped you in a game you aren’t even playing. If there’s one thing I have learnt in the past 5 years alone, it’s that life has this way of humbling you and reminding you that you crap the same way as everyone else (ooooh shocker) and that your position in society and in the workplace can change at the drop of a contract.
These sadistic individuals will probably never learn their lesson and will forever feel this sense of importance over other individuals. Their delusion is sad. Cyber bullying is another major issue currently. People feel the need to publicly pick on people’s weight, their homes, their lifestyle and the way they look. It’s not ok. Let me say that again… IT'S NOT OKAY. It’s not cute babe. Grow up, get down from that horse and look in the mirror.
In the past, I would allow people to walk over me- now I watch others walk over them (so satisfying ) and I must say sadly, some of them have not changed.
Before we say anything further about these creatures, I want you to understand the mindset of a bully. These guys are the most insecure, under appreciated, incompetent, egotistical species of human. They probably grew up insecure and felt the need to carry that into their work lives and adult relationships. I actually feel sorry for these people because if they stopped just for a second to learn something new, they would feel empowered and not intimidated. The moment they lose some kind of power in one aspect of their life, let’s say at home, they waltz in to the work place and feel like they can push bottom end hard workers around to feel some kind of power.
A bully is someone you should pray for, because they will need it the most. Shame. They don’t deserve a moment of your attention and your approach to them is extremely important. I have a few “healthy” tips to combat this:
1. Don’t take it personally.
2. Laugh in their face, it will piss them off.
3. Don’t retaliate or give them a reaction- ignore therapy is something the idiot category can’t comprehend.
4. Try to avoid them if possible- I do this to stay out of jail.
5. Remember, it’s them and not you.
These are just a few my young, immature mind could come up with however on a serious note- bullying is not okay. If you experience bullying at school, speak to your teacher about it as well as your parents. If you have a child that’s being bullied, reassure them that it’s not their fault that others don’t have nourishment (put the bat down- the answer is never violence). If you experience bullying at work, do not confide in a co worker, approach your manager and if your manager can’t help you- get HR involved. Confiding in a co worker is not going to help the situation, you want a solution not be the office gossip.
There are also some bullies that exist within out family dwellings, urgh. The family that come out of the woodwork after marriage is insane and their intrusion in your life should be at a minimum. You married your spouse- not the entire circus. At any level of your life, this type of necrosis must be removed. Always remember that a bully is the problem, not you. How they perceive your wonderful nature and thriving life makes their blood boil- make it curdle next time. Do not give them the space in your mind and allow them to live rent free- evict and chuck all their opinions at the same time. Remember who you are and only respond to the name you have been given. Never let anyone be the downfall of your beautiful, vivacious and charismatic self that everyone loves. Be you… unapologetically, every single day.
I hope your found this insightful and flush these crappers of society down the toilet. Till next time!
Happy flushing 😀
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